Doing the same thing day in and day out is sure to bring you the same results. If you want things to change you have to change the things you are doing. Today is a perfect day to shake things up. Your challenge is to change one thing today and experience how good that feels. [...]
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Determination
“The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.” (Ayn Rand)
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You have been searching for the answer outside of you and I will say that you are wasting your time. All of the self-help books you read will not give you the answer. You believe you are broken and in need of fixing but, All of the time you spend searching for the answer to your problem [...]
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After 14 years of marriage I was divorced because I had an affair. My husband was verbally abusive and never let me out of his sight. I understand that I am responsible for what I did
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This is a short parable that can apply to both our personal and professional lives (discussion following the parable)… A wise man spoke to an audience, telling them a joke. Everyone laughed like crazy. After another moment, he told the same joke again. This time less people laughed. He cracked the same joke again & again. When there was [...]
Read the rest of this entry »A Father’s Letter to His Son
My Dear Son; College starts in a couple of weeks and you are about to face the reality of adulthood. You can take this reality like a slap in the face and live in fear of the things that could happen or look at is as the greatest adventure ever because you get to [...]
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Yesterday afternoon I found myself in a place I don’t like very much, feeling sorry for myself. Now you might think, “Wait a minute, you are a life coach, aren’t you supposed to be able to stop yourself from feeling all of those negative feelings?” The fact of the matter is just because I have been [...]
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Achieving success is the fuel that motivates the majority of us to accomplish anything. I’m not speaking of success in the strict sense of financial accomplishments, the concept of what success means is unique to each of us. Success can be in the form of parenting, helping others, sports as well as financial. The first [...]
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No one is immune…
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The resistance to forgive can often be attributed to the misconception that once you have offered forgiveness trust has to be given as well. Here’s another way to look at it… There is a big difference between forgiveness and trust. By forgiving someone we come to an understanding within ourselves of the reason(s) behind the [...]
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Searching for a better you? Do other peoples comments and opinions have more of an impact on how you feel than you want them to? What’s guilt got to do with it? Tend to be critical of yourself, even when you are complimented? Is it hard to forgive others? Is trust something that is difficult [...]
Read the rest of this entry »A Quote from Emerson
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
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One of the traits I’ve observered in people, through day to day realationships and as a life coach is that too often we delay the joy of experiencing true happiness at the time it happens, it’s almost as if we feel we haven’t done anything to earn it. It’s a sad attribute of the “human [...]
Read the rest of this entry »The Critic Inside
We all have a voice inside that criticizes us, but for some it’s quite a bit more active than it is in others. Have you ever wondered where all that noise comes from and what its purpose is? Let’s explore what happens when we pay too much attention to that voice giving it more credibility [...]
Read the rest of this entry »Seeing Only Ego
The more limited, the more narrowly egoic your view of yourself is…
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To make real change in your life it’s imperative for you to realize that your present life situation is the sum of your thoughts from inaccurate perceptions based on your previous experiences. If you are serious about wanting to make changes and improve your results in the physical world, not only do you absolutely have [...]
Read the rest of this entry »The Real Meaning of Power
The definition of the power one gets from life coaching has nothing to do with controlling other people. It isn’t a force that can be used to impose your will in everyday relationships with others…
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